Sexual fantasies

2019-09-04 18:58:38

One of my favourite subjects within the vast world of sexology it’s the one about sexual fantasies.

Let’s start by describing what sexual fantasies are:

Sexual fantasies are cognitions or thoughts that develop in the mind and cause a pleasant state of sexual arousal augmenting the libido.

These thoughts may appear in the form of images, photographs or as if it were a movie...they pass in the imagination of each person in the way we like, most freely.

Having and enjoying sexual fantasies is a precious way to indulge and know our desires more deeply as well as being a source of personal growth.

They help us to stimulate imagination and creativity also improve self-esteem even they are perfect incentive to try new games or sexual practices.

And we all have sexual fantasies. Yes, all!

If you don’t feel identified it is because perpahs you haven’t yet paid enough attention to know your own tastes and desires that of course can be changing throughout life.

It is important to note that sexual fantasies don’t distinguish between sex, age, sexual orientation, identity, tastes or sexual practices.

There can be as many sexual fantasies as people in the world and they are all equally valid as long as they fulfill their goal: to excite you, feeding your desire.

And then... Can sexual fantasies be put into practice?

Well, that depends on each person.

Precisely, sexual fantasies likes so much because most of the time they have content that escape from what you have in reality. Other times, it is another way of approaching it and can become wishes put into practice.

I insist that an erotic fantasy is a form of sexual elixir that helps to excite de person in the way that pleases him/her most. Imagining all those scenes that cause a high excitatory state.

And of course, this doesn’t imply that there is an obligation to make them reality, although of course they can be carried out.

If you want to fulfill a sexual fantasy you have to study your own personal situation and assess the extent to which you would really like to put it into practice. Above all, if there are more people involved, assertive communication and consensus are determining factors.

It’s a whole!

It is important to keep in mind that sexual fantasies are so pleasurable and exciting precisely for one reason: we handle them in our view, in our imagination...

And the reality may be different, or even better!

After all that said, Welcome to Secretummm, this erotic furniture can be the direct entrance to your most precious desires.

Enjoy your fantasies!!

Judith Viudes

Psychologist and sexologist.

Instgram @judithviuser

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